Selokela ‘Slu’ Molamodi

Slu is a self-professed conversationalist. She is the host of Hope Alive Breakfast, an online radio show, a writer, and a passionate advocate for a GBV-free society who has been a leader all her life. A prefect in both primary and high school she now extends her influence towards uplifting and empowering communities to speak up, find a voice and get involved. 

As a policy champion at Activate, Slu works as part of a group of young people who host nationwide voter registration workshops. Together they teach communities how government structures work and how they can get involved, alongside the importance of participating in the IDP process, and voting. She does this as part of their change-drivers youth network, bringing young leaders together from across the country through leadership training, and access to different opportunities. 

Slu joined Generation G in 2020, a coalition between ActionAid, Activate and Sonke Gender Justice, mobilising young people towards building a GBV-free society. Through research, they found that many young people are not interested in the development of their communities because they do not feel included. 

“We needed to get young people involved in fighting GBV in our communities. I was one of the champions based in Tembisa. I was chosen because at the time Generation G was focusing on the hotspots and Tembisa was one of them in South Africa. Corrective rape, homophobic killings and other forms of GBV were common.“

Being the champion meant that  Slu became the leader of conversations in Tembisa around stakeholder relations. She had to rally and mobilise community-based organisations that are working towards the same goals as Generation G. She would facilitate community dialogues where she learned that it is not just GBV organisations that should be in the conversations, it became clear that economic power is an important issue to address, so local businesses had to be brought into the conversations as well.

“As a champion, you are not going into the communities with a solution. I would create a safe space, invite community members and ask them to bring others to the dialogue. Statistically, women are the victims or survivors so mostly it was women who turned up. But after the dialogues, we would just send them home to the same situation. We needed a new approach. We needed to speak to young men in the community and ask them to invite their male friends. The conversations were not about bashing men but about understanding each other and working towards a common goal.”

“Even issues as small as pronouns are a difficult thing for township communities to understand. They are having to learn a new language. My job was always to step in and remind people that this is a safe space. The conversation around respect and compassion, where inclusivity is concerned, is one that arose when we were doing GBV workshops.”

Being a facilitator is one of Slu’s most important roles. And one that demands understanding and patience. 

When you are dealing with a diverse group of people you have to understand that a single conversation is not going to make a difference. Sometimes you need to extend grace to the people you lead and serve. But more importantly, you need to learn to see them and take a moment to understand them. That kind of approach has helped me in my advocacy work in adulthood.”

Slu is currently in her second year of journalism studies at Rosebank College in Braamfontein, driven by the ambition to be the most influential talk radio host in the country. In that position, she says, she will be able to keep the conversation about GBV alive and play a pivotal role in the evolution of the conversation in pursuit of a safer society for everyone.

In addition to all of this slu is a facilitator and schools outreach manager at Qrate, an organisation that aims to spread period positivity through menstrual workshops across the country.